Struggling, but getting back on track with my smut writing

Ryder O. Cox
Ryder O. Cox

02/08/2023

AAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I’m having A DAY(tm). I wrote up at least half of this email only for Firefox to crash, so I’m sorry if things are a little off. I’m doing my best~! 

This update includes good and bad news, such as a new book project, the status of the rewrite of Discovery,  promos, and a bit more in the ‘about me,’ section, so be sure to read all the way to the end!
And please don’t hesitate to hit leave a comment or drop me a message to let me know if you have any questions, suggestions, or just wanna talk about my cat-children. They love you already, I promise!And a quick note – my mailing list subscribers got this update Wednesday, so if you want the latest about me, go sign up for the newsletter! You’ll also get some great extra goodies, like bonus chapters, early releases, discounts, and more!!
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Voting still going on for the Queer Indie Author Awards! – Vote For Me!

Vote for Ryder O. Cox in the Queer Indie Awards Romance Section!

I mentioned last week that I was nominated  for the Queer Indie Lit Awards in the Queer Romance category, and I’m still psyched! I am just honestly blown away by how supportive this community has been. I don’t know who nominated me, but if it was one of you, you own my heart!

If you think I’m deserving, it would mean the world to me if you could vote for me! Winning would be HUGE for my self esteem as an author! And while you’re there, be sure to vote for everyone in all the other awesome LGBT categories too!

Promo Tiiiime

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My clicks went up last week, but not by much. It’s a really easy and free way to help me out, so I’d super appreciate it if you’d just do me the teeny tiniest favor and give a little click? 


Extra Steamy MM Books for Valentine’s Day~!I’ve added a new page to my site with all the reasons why this helps, as well as some other free and simple ways you can help me out, so if you’re interested (which I hope you are!) thenplease go check it out 💕
Say the Words by Christie Gordon

HUGE thanks if you clicked the link above, but this is something different! The author of the book above shared one of my books to their followers, so I’m  sharing one of theirs with you – simple, right?

Just like the promo above, Bookfunnel tracks how many clicks I send to this url and gives me a ‘score’ that other promoters can see and decide whether or not they want to work with me based on that, so please click it and check it out for me <3

Click here to read Say the Words by Christie Gordon free on KU!

Here’s a quick synopsis: 

Luke Anderson has decided that relationships are not his thing after finding his boyfriend engaging in a sex act with another man on New Year’s Eve. Since then, he only allows sexual gratification from trivial gay bar hook-ups with no strings attached. Even kissing is out of the equation. Now that he has graduated from Arizona State University and is starting a new job in a Tempe, Arizona high-tech company, he’s open to fresh starts.

Jax Meyer’s intense fascination with Luke started when they had class together. His attraction to men has always confused him and kept him in sometimes toxic relationships with women. His current relationship is no different. When he realizes that he’s now working with Luke, he decides to test the waters.

Jax has Luke’s full attention from the moment they see each other in the lobby on their first day at work. The attraction is palpable. When Jax dominates Luke’s time with flirtatious comments and suggestive touching, Luke questions Jax’s motives, especially since he has a girlfriend. Jax makes his intentions known and dives headfirst into being the perfect boyfriend for Luke. But Jax’s girlfriend’s refusal to sever their ties tests Luke’s faith in Jax and could destroy everything.

Themes: Bi-Awakening, Coming Out, First Times, Hurt/Comfort Triggers: Clerical Abuse, Absent Parent

Click here to read Say the Words by Christie Gordon free on KU!

Ok, that’s it for promos. Thanks again for those who have been engaging with the links here, on social media, or on my site! As always, I’m totally open to other, less-invaisve (for you) ways to promote instead, so hit reply and lmk if you’ve got any!

How Can You Support Indie Authors?

Practice Makes Perfect - free everywhere!

So besides clicking promo links, how else can you support indie authors like me? Besides reading our books (which is obvious and probably why you’re here? I hope?) there are tons of ways!

Like I mentioned above, I added an entire new page to my site with plenty of ways you can support me and independent authors like me without having to spend a dime! The graphic above shows the basics, but this page has a more in-depth description of how to do each one and why each one helps – https://ryderocox.com/best-free-ways-to-support-indie-authors/

Seeking Advanced Release Readers for the Re-Release of Discovery!

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Thanks so much to my beta readers for Discovery (Inheritance Part 1)
– you’re all alphas in my book! (Terrible joke, omg, I’m sorry LOL). So I’ve got the final draft all done and that means that I’m ready for ARC readers! If you’d like to read the rewrite early, I ask only that you let me know by replying to this email, and promise to leave me a review to let me know what you think once you’re done.

New Story in the Works!

So, I can’t just do one thing… And before you say anything, yes, I know I’m working on a rewrite (Discovery), a sequel short story (to Practice Makes Perfect), and a novel (Depths of Desire). But is it ever really too early to start a new story? I gave a quick synopsis to those who subscribe to my mailing list, so if you want the latest, the best way to get it is to sign up for the newsletter!

Get to Know Me with NGL

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I didn’t get any new questions on NGL this week, so I thought I’d go on the teeniest little rant about my brain. If you want to send me a question to answer, feel free to hit reply to this email, or if you want to send an anonymous question, you can use my NGL link – https://ngl.link/authorryderocox

So I’m pretty open about the fact that I have ADHD. I’ve been trying different medications and different strengths of those medications for a year or two now, with varying results. But, guess what? The US is having a shortage on almost all types of ADHD medication!  

I honestly can’t express to you how annoying this is. If you’re going through it too, know that I feel for you with the deepest empathy that I have. I’m unable to sleep (stimulants sometimes make ADHD folks tired), I can’t concentrate on literally anything (which is why Discovery still doesn’t have a firm release date) and I just can’t for the life of me remember anything

I feel like there was a point to this, but guess what? I’ve already forgotten it. No, this is not a joke or a bit – I seriously can’t remember why I wanted to bitch about it here.

Latest Books

Practice Makes Perfect

Practice Makes Perfect by Ryder O. Cox

Sparks fly when best friends Mateo and Morgan decide to work together to get good at dating. They’re two good-looking college guys, they just need a little practice.

Too bad they have no one to practice with but each other.

Hey, at least Morgan looks cute in a skirt, right?

Getting dumped sucks, and nobody knows the truth of that statement more than Mateo and Morgan. They’ve been best friends for a couple years, but neither of them can keep a girlfriend for more than a couple months! Mateo hasn’t even kissed a girl, let alone get past first base with one. So of course he turns to his bestie, Morgan, for help. And, after all, practice makes perfect, right..?

 

Killer Love

 

Killer Love by Ryder O. Cox & Kotori
Killer Love by Ryder O. Cox free on Kindle Unlimited!
Harris McGuire and Dalton Gardener are both assassins utilized by the mafia. Dalton is one of the highest professionals on the totem pole, known for his precision and planning, who works for the top crime family in the area. Harris, on the other hand, is a brutal yet efficient freelancer who various mafia outfits have been known to contract. The two assassins’ paths cross on occasion and they enjoy a friendly rivalry, with Dalton teasing Harris for not ‘settling down’ to work with a single mafia family and Harris thinking that Dalton is the more stuck up and limited of the two due to the mafia’s rules which he must follow to a T.
But one day, unbeknownst to each other, they both receive peculiar assignments – to kill the other assassin. Dalton’s comes from his mafia boss, whereas Harris’ is from a strange anonymous (but wealthy) client. The two men chase each other around the city attempting to complete their jobs, each using his own skill set to the best of his ability.
But when Harris corners Dalton in his home, it’s not fighting that he has on his mind…

Discovery (Inheritance 1)

Discovery by Ryder O. Cox & esotericPride
Discovery by Ryder O. Cox free on Kindle Unlimited!

When Theo’s Uncle Harold dies suddenly in a car accident and leaves everything he owns to his nephew, Theo is more than a bit surprised. But he and his boyfriend, Jun, need a place to stay, and the mansion is more than spacious enough for the two of them. But when Theo starts hearing odd noises coming from the study after a few days, he starts to think that the place is haunted.

The truth is much worse.

In a small hidden room, Theo finds a naked man behind bars…

 

Tainted Belief

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Tainted Belief by Ryder O. Cox free on Kindle Unlimited!
Bad: An asexual Catholic priest falls for the choir director at his church.
Worse: That choir director just happens to be an incubus in disguise.
For as long as he’s been an adult, Father Nikolas has been a priest. He went from high school to seminary school and then found a flock to lead in a small suburb of London. He’s never needed or wanted anything else, really. But when he finds his eyes lingering on the choir director long after everyone else has left, Niko begins to question everything.
Leviathan was cast out from Heaven and he chose to become an incubus, pursuing the pleasures of mankind instead of their torment. He sees Father Nikolas as just another meal, someone to play with, seduce, nourish himself with, and leave. But all that changes when he finds himself growing feelings for the priest.
Representation: trans main character (FtM), asexual main character, male homosexual main characters, POC main character

 

More coming soon!

That’s it for this week, but I’m still working on those ideas for how to make these blogs more fun and engaging with things like giveaways and more ways to get involved in my life and my journey as an author. I’d like to grow my mailing list to around 3 times what it is now before we do any of that, but if you’ve got something you’d like to see me do here, even share something you’ve made with everyone, let me know by leaving a reply or dropping me a message and I’ll do my best to make it happen!